Negativity

That is the "word 'o' the week" apparently.  It's what I got accused of last night after being teary and upset at the situation regarding Emily once Phlll got home yesterday.  I have never heard him use that word, EVER he must have got it from someone else.  He logged into my email account (my computer is broken) and there was an email from Emily, totally manipulative of course even though he could not see it,  I sent it on to Kate and she completely agreed with me.  She got home safely and was so glad to be there.
Emily is being bought things and allowed to use the internet, two of the things I specifically told Phill to tell them not to do down there.   Nothing will change. Interfering barstards who have made things so much worse.
So today we move into our new house.  Josh and I are so happy and excited.  I am throwing/giving away a lot of crap that I've carried with us for ages but never use.  I am even thinking of getting rid of our dining table, we don't need a six seater now and we don't really have the room for it, a little four seater would suit us much better.
I have worries now that Phill is suffering from early dementia or the like, his behaviour and speech is increasingly odd.  I suggested that he see a doctor while he is home, only to be met with derision.  I do think that he is seeing his own input into Emily's behaviour, ie the constant moving around (always his idea) and his not being home much and this could be why he is behaving in the way he is. 
So, far from the negativity that I've been accused of, I am looking forward to a better way of life in our new house and new neighbourhood, lots of plans for me and Josh.